Girls have lots of ways at their disposal to get a guy’s attention, but getting the right kind isn’t always as easy as it looks, especially when those butterflies in their stomach decide to have a party when a cute farmer walks into the room. Single farmers are a particular breed of men in so far that they’re unlikely to fall for an arrogant, snobbish city girl, and prefer their partners to keep it real. Below, we outline our top 3 tips for getting a farmer to notice you and make his move.
1. Play It Smart
There is no denying that in the eyes of most men out there, farmers included, every girl is unique in her own way, particularly if she’s cute. That being said, no amount of deep cleavage, short skirts or long wavy hair can come even close to being smart and using your intelligence right.
This isn’t to say farmers are attracted to Ph.D. candidates, brainiacs or bookworms. What we’re saying is that using your smarts to make witty comments at the right time, tease him when you’re talking, getting his sense of humor, and making him laugh makes the boys go crazy – in the long-term.
You’ll attract the wrong kind of attention if you’re out drinking with them in skimpy outfits, owning that mechanical bull. At the same time, controlling your drinking, keeping it together, smiling, and being cheeky will get you the kind of attention that you can turn into something much more meaningful.
2. Play It Cute
Men, in general, are often turned off by overly confident women. A girl who’s super self-confident looks like she doesn’t even need a man in her life, and if a guy doesn’t feel needed, he’s going to turn his attention elsewhere.
At the same time, we’re not saying to play the ‘damsel in distress’ card either, but you could always play the cute ‘girl next door’ card. Farmers like girls who’re down to earth with a touch of mischievous, and there is no better tactic for you to get his attention than to be a cutie he won’t be able to resist.
There is a clear distinction between cute and sexy, and the trouble with sexy is that it has a short shelf life. Once you realize you’re giving him butterflies and he’s hooked, there is no reason not to introduce some sexy into the mix, but for starters keep it adorable if you want to see him again.
3. Don’t Play It Alone
When you’re surrounded by friends or family, looking all content and pleased with your life is extremely attractive to the men in your company. They eat up the positive vibes a happy girl sends, and if she happens to be cute and smart to boot, her job is pretty much done.
If you feed off the energy of your closest people, their presence will undoubtedly increase your attractiveness, and the farmer you’ve got your eye on won’t know what hit him. If there is any partying involved and you like to dance, there is no doubt he’ll be going through all the best lines in his repertoire searching for the right one to start a conversation with you!