Trying to Get Around Approaching a Woman Usually Doesn’t Work Out Well

Trying to Get Around Approaching a Woman Usually Doesn't Work Out Well

There are no absolutes when it comes to the right way to get a date with a woman. Every situation that you come across is going to be a little bit unique and I’ve heard plenty of crazy stories about how couples have gotten together and even fallen in love. So, I won’t try to box anything into an absolute, as in – you absolutely must do this or you are not going to find success at all. However, there are some general rules of thumb that do tend out to be true most of the time.

One of those general rules is that, as a guy, you are going to have to get used to the idea of approaching a woman. You can try to get around that, and you might have *some* success by getting around it. However, for most guys, they are going to find that they usually are much more successful if they don’t and they just accept the idea that it is up to them to make the approach.

YOU CAN HAVE YOUR OWN STYLE –

The thing is, you don’t have to make your approach the same way that every other guys. In fact, I’d highly recommend that you have your own style when you walk up to a woman, as this is what will make you stand out in those initial moments where she is trying to judge whether or not you are for real. Copy cats can and do have some chance at succeeding, but usually it is the guy who develops his own style that does the best as far as approaching a woman will go.

CAN YOU GET HER TALKING?

Really, it all comes down to whether or not you can get a woman talking. If you can, then you are pretty much good to go. If you have a hard time getting a woman to open up to you, then you are going to have a really hard time trying to get her to hand you a number or to say yes to dating you. That really is what it all boils down to. If you can get a woman to open up and have a conversation with you, where you have the chance to build both rapport and attraction with her, then you have a good chance at getting what you want. Which is almost always going to be a date or a phone number, of course.