How to Build a Family Which Will Last?
The creation of a couple is such a delicate and unique event, that it can be compared to very few things in our life. Especially if the couple creates a relationship that lasts till the rest of the life (and let’s hope in the “Life to come” as well!). There is no other universal relationship advice except for being honest and loving to each other! When husband and wife stick together and try to do good to each other instead of criticizing each other’s actions, that’s what really makes the union solid.
Talking about solid, when you buy a house you would surely be more interested in inspecting the foundation of that house to see if there are any cracks and to make sure it’s strong and solid, you don’t bother so much about the paint on the walls, wallpapers or maybe tiles in the bathroom. Why? Because you know that the house is built upon the foundation and that’s what keeps it strong and lets it last long years. You should have absolutely the same approach to relationship with your spouse- take care of the “foundation” of your family first of all!
Every good husband knows what his wife loves, don’t be lazy and please her as much as you can and with no particular reason, you will be surprised by how much she would appreciate that! Loving each other means loving your special one more than you do yourself!
Selfishness often ruins family relationship, people tell each other about their love, but they only love themselves, the love the way other person pleases them, or they love the way other person is making them feel confident!
A woman was created by G-d from the Adam’s rib. Not from his leg bone, because she would be humiliated by that fact. Not from Adam’s head- because she would out-smart him. But from his side to be side-by-side with him and be equal to him. She was created from a part that’s covered by man’s arm- to be protected by her man and from the heart’s side- to be loved by him!
Don’t forget those simple advices and may G-d bless you and your future family!